It's Because It Starts to Mean More

Andrew Sullivan is linking to a study suggesting that a hook-up culture doesn't seem to eviscerate an ability to enjoy a committed relationship. Plus, there's a funny video.

Oh, and where was the study conducted? Chicago.

All the same, I wouldn't start saying that a hook-up culture has no effect. My guess is that it's really the difference between learning a lesson the easy way and learning it the hard way. Chronic hook-ups without any real connection only makes you yearn for the one thing a hook-up can't give you: love.

The Pitfalls of Online Dating

Some interesting thoughts on online dating here. Dan Ariely of Duke thinks it focuses attention on categorizable but superficial qualities, making it difficult to form the holistic impression that underlies real attraction and compatibility.

He's probably right - but in my case, at least, the real problem is that I'm in Philly. The talent is lacking here.